On my way to Upstate New York from the Dominican
Republic, I found myself lingering at JFK for over three
hours. As I sat in the waiting area and hastily devoured
my RSS feeds, I overheard a red-haired young lady sharing
her plight with a friend. Her vindictive ex-boyfriend had
uploaded some questionable pictures to Facebook: “My family and most
of my friends have already seen the pictures! I kept untagging them and
he kept tagging them back!”
Nowadays, if you want to keep a sound reputation, you have to work
harder than ever. You can thank technology like digital cameras,
cellphones, and laptops for this mishandling of your personal
information online. Today, the notion of a long-lasting good name could
well be oxymoron.
One may think we are all bound to live in a world in which everyone’s
reputation could be tarnished due to a debauched picture on MySpace.
However, that’s not necessarily the case. I’m not going to tell you
how (or how not) to party. Instead, I am going to share with you a few
straightforward measures that could help you diminish the chances of an
unpleasant surprise in the future — the kind of surprise that augurs badly
for your professional life.
Limit Your Friends in Social Networks
Are you sure every single one of those 500 people you’ve approved on
Facebook is truly your friend? More contacts on a given social network
provide a wider audience for that embarrassing photo. Consequently, only
close friends should have access to all the colorful personal data shared
in today’s social networks.
Treat Others Well
Try following Google’s motto: “Don’t be evil.”
Grudges held against you can come back
and bite you in the bum really fast. Perhaps
our friend at the airport wouldn’t have had
so many problems if she had handled the
situation differently. Granted, we don’t know
the circumstances that led to her dilemma;
but treating people with respect and tact will
almost always yield positive results.
Produce Content
It doesn’t matter how or where, but you must
produce content on a regular basis. The internet
and other forms of media provide you with all
the tools you need. You can blog, write a book, or
draw a comic. The reason is simple: Marketing.
If you want any type of reputation, marketing
and public relations will play a fundamental
role. What better way to boost your image than
to create a venue to showcase your ideas and
charismatic persona? If you want others to
remember your name and attach some meaning
to it, you’ll undoubtedly have to create content
of some sort first.
Guard Your Image
Be careful with the content you are putting
online. Try to be clear about your intentions
and politely clarify whenever there is the need
to. Your words may easily be misconstrued
on a blog or on any other form of wr it ten
communication such as e-mails or IMs. On the
internet, ambiguity is your enemy.
This advice is by no means a comprehensive
list, nor is it a quick fix; the effectiveness of my
suggestions cannot be measured in the short
run. You’ll likely have to wait a few months,
or even years, before you see results. However,
given time, people will start associating your
name with the content you produce. Slowly but
surely, your reputation will help you achieve
your goals instead of damaging your chances
at success.